Gone

I lost a friend last Monday. His name was Alan Chevat. He was 72.

I met Alan about twenty years ago when he came to study at the Yee’s Hung Ga kwoon in Brooklyn, where I was an instructor. We became friends right away.

Alan was a very interesting man. He was Chief Attorney in one of the state court offices downtown, but his interests were wide-ranging. A lifelong Brooklynite, he lived near me in Park Slope with his wife and daughter. We used to walk home from class together, and we’d always get into some lively conversation, and end up standing on the street corner near my house on 9th Street, not wanting to part company and go home just yet. After he left the school to go study Wing Chun we stayed in touch, and we’d get together for lunch when I was in town.

Alan was a “renaissance man”. When he retired a few years ago, he dove into a variety of intellectual pursuits, including reading all of Shakespeare and studying advanced mathematics at Brooklyn College. He also loved history and music – and of course he was enormously knowledgeable about the law. We appreciated each other’s minds very much; he was the real deal. They say that “the owl of Minerva spreads her wings at dusk”, and this was never truer than with Alan. He saw retirement as a great gift, a garden to be cultivated. We could talk about anything at all, and though we didn’t always agree — he was a “red-diaper baby”, and a committed Progressive all his life, while I, as you will have noticed, am not — we could disagree in the best possible way: as an opportunity to learn, and to understand more deeply the contrary point of view. He was, in the truest sense, a gentleman and a scholar, and my life was deeply enriched by his friendship.

Alan’s wife Ruth called me a few days ago to tell me that Alan, who was quite fit — he rode his bike all the time, and worked out regularly with his Wing Chun training buddies — had died suddenly and unexpectedly sometime on Monday. It was sickening news.

Alan was of course fully vaccinated against the Wuhan Red Death. I can’t help wondering if that had something to do with his death. I guess I’ll never know.

RIP, Alan. You were truly a remarkable man, and a real kindred spirit. I will miss you terribly.

2 Comments

  1. mharko says

    Sincere condolences on the loss of that rarest of life’s treasures, a good friend. Especially one with whom you could amicably disagree. Unexpected deaths are such an affront, an assault.
    I understand why you can’t help wondering.
    May he rest in peace and may there be a consoling presence of some kind for his Ruth.

    Posted September 26, 2021 at 11:47 pm | Permalink
  2. JK says

    Rest in peace Alan.

    From dust – mystery – we are and will return.

    https://havechanged.blogspot.com/2021/08/end-of-line.html

    (This … may be … guess I’ll be finding out pretty soon heh heh. (I really shouldn’t joke I guess but I’ve seen alot) Anyway Malcolm, Whitewall, … I got “chosen” to be the guy who, some hours from now, card’s come up to change the locks on a house that’s “in dispute” – And I’ve got a bad feeling about this one. “They/[Some]” say we live eternally on the internet – that ‘they&some’ most likely loopier’n Biden’s latest fit-for-office mental acuity tester but since daylight’s a mere hour and some minutes away [CDT] I just think I need say the word “unexpected” is over-rated.

    In case I outlive tomorrow Malcolm you’ll be promising me you’ll not delete this comment?

    Then again – heh heh – should I get deleted this will stand as my obituary.

    Fitting I think given this internet age.

    Beats all to hell:

    I told you I was sick!

    Posted September 27, 2021 at 5:28 am | Permalink

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